Tuesday, December 15, 2015

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...in Kansas...after a tornado, but the weather feels more like spring.

While I was icing my back, getting back treatments, and running our son all over town for X-rays and multiple consultations and treatments for his neck trauma, our dear daughter decorated for Christmas in her own style. I'm so grateful I will not be changing a thing she did although I did add a few more items in the wee hours of the night.

Fluffing the tree
Advent lighthouse
 

Belkie Bear Tradition
Decorating the tree
 
Maw-Maw's hand painted nativity and stable Paw-Paw built
 


 
The pets got new stockings on the mantle this year.
Then the next day, I woke up to a tree down and a snow village that looks like Kansas after a tornado. Is it possible to have Christmas decorations and a cat in the same house? I must remember to post before and after pics to illustrate what our cat did to all our decorations by the end of Christmas.



 Orwell's Christmas gift was too big to put in his stocking we so let him open it early.



Speaking of Christmas decor, one of my favorite funny engineer peers at the office decorated himself for Christmas last week.  I don't think I've ever seen a tackier Christmas sweater. He wins the prize.

Thanksgiving Week Brought Trials and Triumphs

The weekend before Thanksgiving, this rascal who rules this place and does so much damage sneaked outside and went MIA.


During that time, he still seemed to cause as much trouble away as he did at home. He turned our home into a house of mourning and paranoia. Whenever we would go outside or walk by a window, we were constantly looking for a white fluff ball hiding out somewhere.  We searched the neighborhood, looked in every hiding place, notified the neighbors, and then posted an ad with a pic on a community website to the nearest 1200 homes.  My husband's phone rang "off the hook"  (I guess technology outdated that phrase) whenever anyone saw a cat. It was so nerve racking.  Then late Sunday night, my husband heard that critter purring on the front porch - shortly before the temperature dipped below freezing.
Look who just showed up at our front door after a 27 hour Rumspringa that left his family worried sick.
Then on Tuesday after Orwell returned, I was rushing to get read to lead our first STEM field trip when our son tripped on a rug and locked his neck into a downward position.  It was completed jammed.  His whiplash looked like he had been in a major car accident.  So I rushed him to the doctor while rushing through my phone list to call all the parents about the field trip and to find a parent to lead in my place.  The doctor could not adjust him until he knew no bones were fractured, but it took over an hour of various treatments to get his muscles to relax enough to get a decent x-ray.


His back was all messed up, and I knew we had a long road ahead of us to get him feeling better again, having traveled down the road of severe spine problems for a decade myself.  Praise God there were no broken bones, so my doctor was able to get him the home run adjustment he needed to lift his head again.  He needed the neck brace for protection, but my boy would not wear it to school.

We dropped by my alma mater to see a former student competing in the Freshman Engineering Design Day and to catch the last half hour of the field trip, but he was not feeling well at all.  It took his mind off things at least.  He returned to the doctor the following day for another consultation, but it was a slow mend.


The next day, however, our son got sick. His cornucopia of whiplash, fever, sore throat, cough, headaches, and vomiting all sounded like a concussion and/or a virus.  He still felt sick on Thanksgiving, but the family insisted he come for Thanksgiving.  He tried to smile for Nana's annual Christmas card, but he felt miserable.  For the first time in two days, he was able to eat a full meal without getting sick, so we felt like he was finally getting better. Maybe being with loved ones helped.




My aunt and uncle's property along a quarry lake was my favorite place to visit during my childhood. My uncle is a brilliant outdoorsman, builder, lineman, hunter, and historian with the skills to live independently off the grid on a small parcel of land his entire life while having an absolute blast in the process. Boating, fishing, swimming, riding the zip line he built, running from the balcony to the dock along the swinging bridge he built, relaxing in their gorgeous Swiss chalet style home he designed and built himself, feeding the ducks, feasting on Aunt Gloria's delicious baked goods, admiring all his funny and unique projects (like the jalopy car), touring historic buildings he and my aunt have restored on the property, conducting research for science projects in a canoe surrounded by wildlife, hosting numerous parties for family and friends, and riding in Uncle Dennis' deer stand swing are a few fond memories there.

So I was thrilled to see him put up a deer stand swing today for our children to enjoy. It's been over 15 years since I last rode in his previous swing.




Love Birds and Family of Four on Thanksgiving Day

Grandchildren on Thanksgiving Day


After Thanksgiving, I took our to a closer doctor to see if I could get his follow-up treatments there where the hours are more flexible so that he could come after school instead of during that school.  I had another relapse myself, so in level 10 pain, I was hoping for some relief myself.  But a different doctor was working that day, and he completely ignored me.  He insisted that the doctor we had seen was incompetent and never should have adjusted him.  He tried to convince me our son had a concussion and sent me to the only pediatric radiology center in the county.   So, still in level 10 pain, I drove him 40 minutes to the clinic where we waited several hours to be seen.  The receptionist initially refused to see us claiming we had no doctor order (even though we heard the DC call it in over the phone). Then my insurance card went missing, and she had no idea how to code anything. They refused to bring me ice while I lay in the floor of the waiting room in sheer agony with back pain.  It was a disaster, but by the end of the day, this X-ray technician said the same thing the first DC had said - no fracture and likely no concussion, but they wanted him to come back for more X-rays the next business day.  Ha!  No way would I ever go back there, and my boy had been X-rayed three times by then.  Not only was I still in pain, but I had been made to feel like a lousy mom. I had just wasted a day and crazy medical bills for nothing, and my boy and I were both tired and hungry and miserable.  What a way to spend Black Friday.  He seems to doing much better now, thank the Lord, but I worried over his head and kept him on restriction from recess all week just in case.

I few bike rides around the lake (albeit while covered in KT tape and taking NSAIDs to dull the back pain) helped ease the stress of the week and remind me that our sovereign Lord holds all things together and works them together for His beautiful and perfect purposes and for His glory.
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Psalm 113:3-4 (ESV)

From the rising of the sun to its setting,
    the name of the Lord is to be praised!
The Lord is high above all nations,
    and his glory above the heavens!

 

Monday, December 14, 2015

Kids' Extracurricular Activities

Our daughter moved into her second season school sport, basketball.  She may be tiny, but she hustles more than any other girl on her team. She's been battling ankle sprains, but I can't get her to rest long enough to let it heal.  She is a fierce athlete.  If her team could shoot as well as they do everything else on the court, they would be unstoppable, but their shooting is really hurting them.  A lay-up clinic offered by a pro as a gift to the school helped our daughter a great deal.  I'm so proud of her commitment to everything she does, but I fear she is just like me in her binary personality.  She is either ALL in or all out.  She will wear herself out and keep injuring herself as I did if she doesn't learn to rest more.  But I know exactly how she feels.  I'm an all or nothing girl myself.

This picture makes me smile because you can tell by the form of her arms and her height from the floor that she is a former gymnast.  She looks like she's beginning a long tumbling run as she throws the ball. She also looks like she could be doing a leap on the high beam.
I addition to going to sports practices or games every day after school, this girl also arrives to school at 6:45 a.m. (thank God for her daddy who drives her that early when he isn't traveling) for drama practice.  She auditioned for a competitive drama team, and they are rehearsing regularly for the state competition in March.  Her electives this semester are Drama and Art.  She is definitely the most right-brained in our family and thrives at this classical school where the liberal arts are such a focus.

Her great-grandfather was a famous wood sculptor, and his life and legacy will be honored with a three-month long exhibition via the Oklahoma Hall of Fame at the Gaylord-Pickens Museumwith a 100th birthday celebration of His art and the art of his descendants beginning Jan 21, 2016 thru April 30, 2016.  She wanted to submit a piece of artwork into the exhibition, but without any professional art instruction and with a mother who is completely incompetent with regard to all things art related, I could not help her.  She is very imaginative but needed some guidance as to mediums to use, how to get started, and how to SLOW DOWN and focus on details.  So, a dear friend who is a professional artist kindly gave of her time to supervise and guide her as she completed a self-portrait of herself with her beloved bunny.  She is still trying to think of a name for it.  She completed it Sunday afternoon, just in time to get it to the museum before the exhibition begins. 




Meanwhile, our son is really beginning to thrive with his piano lessons, though he wants a drum set so he can play drums in the band next year.  I have enough trouble listening to him practice piano.  I'm not sure how I will handle a drum set or where we will put it, but I'm sure he would do a great job, and I certainly enjoyed playing in the drum corps in high school, so I would not want to deprive him of that opportunity.

He is still active in Y Guides with his dad and taking Tae Kwon Do.  He earned his red belt this past Friday.  Black belt is next, but Tae Kwon Do has several levels of red belt and many years of black belt level, so he may continue for years to come.  I'm proud of him for developing the discipline to continue in this sport.  I'm more like my daughter who said Tae Kwon Do was too disciplined for her.  She said she just wanted to spar freely in her own style.  Those two are so different.  One is highly structured, and the other is a free spirit.

Our son will be starting Upward Basketball soon.  He also takes a ridiculously expensive critical thinking / math enrichment course for two hours after my STEM class on Mondays.  It's a long school day for him, but he desperately needs something to challenge him as he continues to sit bored all day in school.  At least he gets lots of recess periods throughout the school day.  And he really loves his teachers, classmates, and upperclassmen who come to visit.
He gives his 2nd grade teacher from last year a hug every single day!

Once a month, seniors dress according to a theme.  Bryan (aka Santa) visited our son's class on Christmas dress day.

Now if only I could get the girls to stop chasing him all over the playground and throughout the school.  He is quite the chic magnet already.





Thursday, December 10, 2015

Porch and Deck Progress - Update #2

Heavy rains and drainage problems delayed our deck and porch plan.  The rains magnified the swell issues such that all the yard run-off ran right over the bottom step off the deck.  We priced stone bridges and wood bridges, but neither option seemed attractive or reasonably priced, so we just moved the attractive 6' stairs with double wrought iron railing over to the side against the house where they became 4' steps with only one side rail.  It saved the builder some money and may not look as nice, but it does give us more usable deck space, a natural straight line walk way from the porch to the yard, and it keeps the steps away from the drainage.

We will have lots of work to do this spring turning that swell into a dry creek, landscaping for privacy, planting flower beds and natural areas around the porch, erecting a trellis behind the privacy wall so it doesn't look as strange, and hopefully building a privacy hedge along the side yard.  I'm heart broken over the loss of all the trees that surrounded our yard during initial grading and over the terrible slope they graded into our yard to reduce the drop down to the neighbor's yard, but we'll have to come up with a way to give us something decent to look at from our porch besides rooftops, solar panels, and storage buildings.  It takes forever to get a house like you want it, I guess, but I'm loving all the progress we're making.

I've been pleased with the crews so far as they have been very professional and done excellent work.  My biggest complaint was the step issue that we thought we had resolved before we went to contract and having to pay for those expensive wrought iron rails which look terrible in front of the EZ Breeze windows we're installing but which are required to pass inspection.  We had to pay for them even though we won't be using them (except to pass inspection), and we'll have to find somewhere to store them all so we can re-install them when we sell the house and need another inspection.  I have found other options like partial knee walls which I wish this builder had recommended, but now we're stuck with what we have.

Here are the pics our builder took the week after Thanksgiving, 19 days after the project started, but after only 7.25 actual work days due to rain and holidays.  The ceiling trim out was finished.  The railing was 90% done.  The custom toe trim border was 50% done, and the steps had been dissembled and moved with the step down platform from the porch to the deck built.
7.25 workdays later
Rain, rain, you're such a pain.
Go away, so they can paint and stain!
The pretty tile is stacked inside
Longing for the porch when the paint has dried.
The deck is only half-way done.
Progress keeps asking, "Where is the sun?"

21 days after the project began (he projected three weeks to completion, so we had hoped to be done by now were it not for the rain and the holiday), they had completed 8.25 days of work.  The lattice construction was complete (except the gate), the privacy wall was framed with Hardiplank installed, and the other set of steps were completed.
Custom toe-kick border done

At this point, Orwell insisted that as the master of the house, he should give the construction work a thorough inspection, as if we haven't had enough by the town already.  We're having an inspection as I type, and I'm missing a long awaited Christmas party just so I can be here while he inspects. :(



By the end of the 22nd day since construction began, the same crew had completed all the carpentry work. It took them 8.75 days total.
Lattice gate installed
Custom trim skirting for the landing and steps (temporary handrail over windows for inspections)
That afternoon, the one man painting crew arrived with samples to help me finalize our paint and stain color choices.  My husband left those decisions all up to me even though I'm the most left-brained one in the family.  He returned for a few hours the next day and put the first coat of stain on the tongue and groove ceiling.

Then the painter installed the drywall for the privacy wall where our fireplace will be placed.  Our daughter saw the purple sheet rock panel and though we were painting the porch purple.  She was elated.  Now that wall is a neutral grayish taupe.

Our cat was not a fan of the painting process. For almost a week, the painter kept the windows covered with plastic.

"Listen, lady. For the past 4 days those painters have had all my favorite windows where I like to perch and watch the birds covered with plastic, so I cannot see outside. Don't you know that is a cruel form of kitty abuse? Fix it, minion, and do it STAT!" - Orwell

Yesterday, the electrician came back for phase 2 installation, and the one hardworking put in another day.  It's really coming along.  The only items left now are tile floor, windows & door, stain deck floor, phase two painting, gutters, and decorative post caps.   I'm all about the rope lighting and will probably use it more than the can lighting or fan lighting.  It's nice to have more flood lights now, too.
Ceiling after phase one painting in the daylight

Ceiling after phase 1 painting (phase 2 will touch up that trim work)




 We have lots of landscaping in our future for sure!

On December 12, another crew installed the tile floor.  It was a lengthy and very expensive process, but we love the way the tile seals the room and make it look more like part of the house. I was nervous about using white tiles, but the dark grout should help with keeping it clean, and the white stone look really brightens the room.  Since the town would not let us put in a stone patio as we initially planned due to impervious area restrictions, having a tile floor helps appease my desire for more stonework. 

Is that a new dance floor I spy
Tempting me as it waits to dry?



Staining the deck flooring is the last step (so the workers don't mess it up before the job is complete), but I'm enjoying the LED floor lighting even without the stain and the whole lighting package.

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